3 things that showed me I was in a healthy relationship

1. We welcome uncomfortable conversations where we communicate with empathy and emotional responsibility. We know that avoiding conflict just makes it bigger overtime, which may lead to developing feelings of resentment and frustration

2. We don’t take anything personal. We understand that our opinions come from our lived experiences. Early on we voiced & approached each others perspectives with curiosity and respect 

3. We are each other’s safe space. We show up as our most authentic self because there’s no judgment and our feelings are validated. 

We understand that we are both imperfect so we provide deep support, love and care for each other as lovers and best friends.  Conflicts are inevitable in every type of relationship, but if at the end of the day that person inspires you to be more and brings out the best in you, it’s worth putting in the work and effort